How to Hope:
Mundane Hope
I’ve been
working on the hope project for more than a year, having produced two papers
for philosophy conferences and a growing list of short essays for Story and Meaning. Eventually the project will culminate in
a book. At some point, readers (at least
some of them) will ask: How can I
hope?
It’s a good
question. I agree emphatically with Iris
Murdoch, who criticized much 20th century moral philosophy by
pointing to its abstraction and sterility.
Moral philosophers, she wrote, ought to ask how people might make
themselves morally better. If moral
philosophy never helps us change, what good is it? If hope is a virtue, how do I get it?
A
traditional Aristotelian answer says that virtues are acquired through
habituation. A young woman observes good
people (almost all of Aristotle’s moral theorizing was directed to men, but we
can generalize) and models her life on them.
There are several typical stages to the process. At the beginning, it may be a significant
step just to recognize good role
models and desire to be like them. There
comes a stage, which Aristotle called akrasia,
in which she desires to be like the
good persons she admires but does not in fact act like them. She “knows” the good but does not do it. Then comes a stage in which through self-control she compels herself to copy
the behaviors of good people. Her
immediate desires are not in accord with virtue, but her higher order desires
triumph over them. Eventually, though,
by habituation, she discovers that
what once was distasteful and hard has become second nature. It is at this final stage that she truly
exhibits the virtue and it may be said that virtue is easy.
Now, I
think there’s much right in this Aristotelian schema. It emphasizes paying attention to exemplars,
and it underscores the idea that moral progress typically takes time and
effort. So, as a preliminary answer to
the question (How can I hope?), I endorse Aristotle’s advice. Observe persons who hope well, and mimic
them.
Notice I
just wrote: “hope well.” That invites
the idea that some people do not hope or hope poorly. One needs to think critically about role
models, including models of hope. In
Aristotelian terms, we need phronesis,
“practical wisdom,” at every stage of virtue acquisition. Phronesis is an intellectual virtue. On Aristotle’s account, our pursuit of moral
virtues is a rational pursuit. By phronesis we recognize good models of
hope and we train ourselves to be like them.
I am
persuaded by reading authors like Jonathan Lear, Michael Bishop, N.T. Wright,
and Adrienne Martin that hope is a far more complicated concept than many
thinkers recognize. (Ironically, Bishop
himself seems to think hope is simply a feeling or attitude; he misses the
complexity of hope. At the same time,
his network theory of positive psychology provides a good explanation for why
hope is so complex.) I think Adrienne
Martin rightly criticizes the “orthodox definition” of hope (orthodox among
modern philosophers, that is) as being far too simplistic.
Martin
argues convincingly that hope is a “syndrome”: a combination of characteristic
perceptions, thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
The syndrome idea coheres nicely with Bishop’s theory of positive
psychology, i.e. that positive psychologists study “positive causal networks”
and that such networks are composed of attitudes, traits, behaviors, and
accomplishments.
If hope is
a complex concept—a “syndrome” or a “causal network”’—my initial Aristotelian
advice may be correct and yet too simple.
The person who asks, “How can I hope?” may be facing any one of a number
of difficulties. A helpful answer will
speak to the particular needs of the inquirer.
Imagine a
parent locked in a seemingly perpetual war of words with her middle-school
daughter. Or a man facing a lay-off
after sixteen years working what he had thought was a stable job. Or a couple whose marriage has turned silent
and cold and seems headed for dissolution.
These are all examples of what I will call mundane life crises. By mundane I do not mean that such
difficulties are mild or unimportant.
But they are ordinary and “earthly.”
We all know people enduring mundane problems; at one time or another, we
all experience them.
Mundane
crises can bring a person to despair. We
feel trapped. There is no way out—at
least, we are tempted to think there is no way out. Sometimes people become clinically
depressed. We don’t know what to
do. We feel hopeless.
Such
persons (and at one time or another we are all such persons) need mundane hope. It is for such people that C.R. Snyder’s
“Hope Therapy” was designed. People who
come for therapy have goals: the mother wants a peaceful relationship with her
daughter, the man wants steady employment and income, and the couple wants to
repair their marriage. But something
gets in the way, a “block”: hurtful words, a lay-off notice, fear of a spouse’s
reaction.
According
to Snyder, hope consists in the combination of two things. First, the patient needs to imagine
“pathways” to reach the goal by getting around the block. Second, the patient must perceive herself as
being motivated to use the pathway.
Here’s a diagram:
-->pathway-->
(motivation) Protagonist --> {BLOCK} Goal
I have
already approved of Adrienne Martin’s syndrome analysis of hope, so it is clear
that I think Snyder’s theory is too simplistic to fit all cases. But we cannot deny the ample evidence that
Snyder and his research colleagues have accumulated. Hope therapy is effective in many cases. By helping clients to think differently, hope
therapy enables them to overcome despair, feel hopeful, and achieve positive
outcomes in diverse areas of life: relationships, employment, sports, etc.
Very often
mundane hope is exactly what we want. We
feel hopeless when some circumstance of life, from the world around us or from
within, blocks us from achieving our goals.
Snyder’s hope theory provides a straightforward way to increase mundane
hope. First, realize that you are able
to invent practical paths to the goal.
Second, realize that you are motivated to use those paths. These two realizations combine to make hope.
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